My best buddy just broke up with someone so he decided to give EH a shot. I have another friend who got one of his only dates from there so I decided I would see what all the hub bub was about just so I would have something to blog about. And hey if I found my Jessica Alba in that sea of fish then more power to me, but I am a realist and I do live in a small California town.
Long story short it is sort of expensive if you were going to use it and I don't think it does anything that you couldn't do on your own on another site or *gasp* in real life. E harmony just makes you jump through hoops to sign up and jump through hoops to communicate.
You have to send these multiple choice questions, then answer their questions, then read their must haves, then send your must haves, this is followed by another round of short answer questions and if you haven't got frustrated with the wait then you can send an original non guided e mail and wait for them to approve reading it. Oh not to mention they pick your matches so you don't even get to pick who you talk to yourself. I control my own destiny not cupid or Dr Warren and the E harmony super computer. If you really want to use an online dating site try another one a friend told me to check plentyoffish.com it's free its quite large and fairly simple to use.
Seemingly as a signal of my coming status I have finally come to the conclusion that I need to let go of my situation and the girl who ties me to it. I really care for her, but I can't do this fighting and worrying all the time anymore. She is a great girl and I wish her the best. If you read this just know that I don't blame you for whats going on with us I understand I really do. I held on so long because when we first met she said she was broken, and I told her that I didn't care that I would always be there for her. I didn't realize that I had to chose between breaking my word or breaking my heart. Well for the last month it hasn't been my word getting broken. However I figured that I can always be here to support her but distance myself otherwise at least for the time being. I will always care for her but we both need space and some much deserved happiness.
On a happier note with this off and on again thing I have had time to reconnect with Greg, Mark, Nick, and Steven once again. This started when Mark invited me to his Super Bowl party last month. Greg, Mark, Nick, Steven and I have known eachother since Junior High/High School. We have had our ups and downs and inside outs but they are decent good people and that is a rare find these days. From drama class and school plays to 4am Denny's runs we have done a lot together it is good to be in contact with them and laughing for a change. They have introduced me to a guy named Darren and a game called Zombies. I pick on Darren a lot but he is a good guy to and I like him. He has to pay his dues and he has at least ten years of crap that he missed out on from us for joining us this late in life. If you read this dude your sentence is up and I will spread the sarcasm to the whole group now = D.
Zombies is a board game by Twilight Creations where you play a survivor in the zombie apocolaypse and you have to either survive and make it to the helipad or you have to kill a certain number of zombies or kill all zombies however you decide to play. Google it if you want more info its pretty simple and fun especially when you have 6 people.
Finally I want to take a minute to talk about someone I met on twitter named Tahlia. What an amazing girl she has turned out to be. I won't give out her info because yea she's hot enough that she has one e stalker she doesn't need more. I had a very long conversation with her on msn today and she and I have a lot in common more than the original liking of Final Fantasy IV on DS. She isn't the first friend that Final Fantasy IV has brought but she definately is the prettiest and the easiest to talk to. I know she reads this so I just wanted her to know that yea you rock and I appreciate our twitter messages back and forth. I promised to not spoil final fantasy IV but all bets are off on Resident Evil 5
Until then anyone that reads this thanks....Be safe....
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pretty good videos. Since you are at blogspot anyway.
so Jessica Alba does it for ya, huh?
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